Want to Land a Date? 6 of Our Best Tips to Get You One

By Dominica


Last Updated: October 21, 2022

For those of you who are searching for an intimate relationship, you must first learn how to navigate the dating field, right?

Most relationships typically do not start without a date or quality time to get to know each other.

As most of you probably know, dating is not always as easy as it may seem to be.

For some people, finding a date can be challenging. You have to decide whether you’ll try online dating or meet potential dates in the community. You’ll also have to figure out what to do or talk about on your date, and this can also be a challenge for some.

If you have made the decision that dating may be a good idea for you, you’ll need to know where to start.



6 Great Ideas to Try if You Want to Land a Date

1. Let Others Know You’re Playing the Field

It may be helpful to tell your friends and acquaintances that you’re wanting to date, as they may know someone that may suit you well.


2. Have a Large Get Together

If you are trying to land a date, having a large get together may be just what you need to do.

Invite your friends and ask them to bring a friend or two. This gives you a chance to meet even more potential dates. Having all your friends together will give you a sense of comfort when chatting with that attractive person you could see yourself dating.

Be open-minded and optimistic about your get together and be sure you take plenty of time to meet everyone and mingle.


3. Be On Your Best Behavior

Always remember that manners matter.

Whether you are interested in dating to look for a potential life partner or just to experience dating, be on your best behavior wherever you are.

After all, some people are still looking for gentlemen/women who know that chivalry is not dead. Whether you’re in the supermarket, at a restaurant, checking into a hotel, at work, or standing in line at a store, be polite and respectful.

You never know who is watching, and you may even find that someone finds your politeness and optimism attractive.


4. Join a Club or Group

If you have a hobby that makes you extremely happy and would love to find a partner who shares that same passion, join a club or group that focuses on that interest. Getting out of the house and doing something you enjoy puts you in a place to meet people and a potential date.

These days, there are also plenty of online groups, such as Facebook Groups, that you can join to meet new people too.

By doing what makes you happy and interests you, you are automatically allowing positive energies to affect your life. This can also bring joy in other areas of your life, such as a date.


5. Get Out in the World

Unless you plan on meeting a date on the internet, there is really no other way to land a date by sitting in your home. You must go out and mingle.

Have you ever heard the phrase, “single and ready to mingle”? This must apply to you.

  • Go out to a popular hangout with your friends after work
  • Invite your friends to a night out on the town and have them bring their single friends
  • Go speed dating
  • Attend events
  • Do anything that gets you out of the house and socializing


6. Join Zoom Events

Another great way to meet potential dates is to join live video zoom events.

Since the days of Covid, many people have been hosting online events. From spiritual meetups to classes to activism groups, there are many kinds of groups to try out. Simply do a search for live video Zoom groups and see if something interests you.

You can also go on Facebook and check out the events page. You have the option to click the link “online events” to see what’s going on in your area and around the world.

I’ve met some wonderful people by attending live video meetings, and I’m sure you’ll do the same. Some may become friends, while others may be potential dates. You won’t know until you try!



Are You Ready to Land a Date?

I understand it’s not always easy to find potential dates, but it is possible.

You must stay determined, be consistent, and remain optimistic. It might take some time, but trust the process. Even if it takes longer than you want, it’s alright. It’s better to be picky and patient than to find yourself dating people you’re really not interested in.

Good luck!

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6 comments on “Want to Land a Date? 6 of Our Best Tips to Get You One”

  1. I am also interested in landing a date 🙂 I resonate with the " you won't find a date sitting at home" part I need to mingle
    Great article thank you ☺️

    1. I know MANY people who have come to this conclusion Lorraine! Getting out there in some way will at least give you more opportunity to make connections! We are crossing our fingers that you will meet someone special - good luck!

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