Cultivating Patience - End of the Month Motivational Message | December

This year was special in many ways.

You uncovered a new version of yourself. You met wonderful people and built genuine connections. You experienced some of the best moments of your life so far.

There are still obstacles, challenges, and unfulfilled desires, but you’ve learned to focus more on what you have than on what you lack. You feel more content in life, and that shift is a testament to the healing work you’ve done.

As the year comes to an end, celebrate the experiences that made you who you are today.

Embrace the bittersweet feeling of cherishing what they meant to you, and then gently let them go, so you can welcome new beginnings.

Learning to Surrender

In every season of life, you’ll move through many waiting periods. These stretches can feel painfully slow, as if no progress is being made, as if every path leads to a dead end, no matter what you try.

That’s when you need to tap into the power of surrender.

Accept where you are right now.

Stop wasting your energy fighting reality or obsessing over your limitations.

Letting go of the urge to force outcomes doesn’t happen overnight. But day by day, the practice of mindfulness, patience, and trust will make it easier.

Life holds a plan beyond your current understanding.

Things will unfold the way they’re meant to, even if the path ahead isn’t clear yet.

Finding the Moments of Silence

Allow yourself to move forward without fear, frustration, or the need for control. Let grace enter your heart.

Take small steps as you learn to surrender.

When you’re overwhelmed by grief or frustration, seeking moments of silence can help you get to a space of centeredness.

Connect with others and embrace the power of love. Use your gifts to bring joy and hope to those in need. Often, doing something for others brings us deeper happiness and a profound sense of fulfillment.

Slow Down & Let Go

Surrender is a choice we must make every day.

In each moment, you have the choice to slow down, accept your feelings, and gently let them go. You don’t have to get it perfect. Just take the first step.

Open your heart to the lightness and freedom found in surrendering to the flow of life.

Here’s to a bright and wonderful beginning to 2026!

Finding Calm in the Stress - End of the Month Motivational Message | December

For many of us, the end of the year can conjure up a sense of powerlessness.

Time is passing you by and there’s still a lot you haven’t achieved yet.

You’re starting to wonder, “What if my best isn’t good enough?” “When will it all happen for me?”

The suspense can feel crippling.

Don't forget - you are a work in progress!

Life is filled with unexpected situations, and that means we always have to remain open to new lessons and perspectives. We’ll always be a work in progress.

As scary as it might seem at first, this realization can bring you a sense of comfort.

No matter what happens, no matter how chaotic it gets, you can always begin again.

Everything changes with time. The changes may not be apparent at first, but you will eventually see the bigger picture. You will find the opportunities you are looking for.

You are strong and capable.

Give yourself grace as you reflect on the experiences you've had over the year.

There were so many moments of triumph and courage, and experiences that opened your eyes.

You’ve overcome moments of deep pain with a lot of grace. You have learned to thrive within your imperfections.

You have decided to move forward as best you can.

It’s okay if you feel tired. It doesn’t mean that you aren’t strong or capable.

You lived and survived through it all.

No one is perfect - and they don't have to be.

Life is dynamic.

Don’t think in absolute terms or let your worth be dependent on circumstances that you cannot control. You’ve managed to create a rich inner world - despite all the struggles you had to endure.

You can find meaning and joy in your life, even when it’s imperfect.

The obstacles you face don’t diminish your worth.

Take a step back to see the bigger picture!

As you wind up another year, try to rethink your perception of the passage of time.

This year is a small part of a bigger picture.

We often put pressure on ourselves to accomplish what we want within specific deadlines. But just because you haven’t achieved a certain goal, doesn’t mean your entire year has gone to waste.

Even if you can’t see the whole picture right now, hold onto that faint possibility that everything will eventually work out in your favor.

Whatever the new year may bring, trust that it will guide you towards your highest good.

All the best for 2025!

Throwback to December 2023's End of the Month Message - Focus on Your Values

This is it. The end of 2023. 

Where did the time go? 

Every year brings a unique concoction of experiences. 

2023 was filled with so many beautiful moments, lessons, and breakthroughs. Of course, there were some challenges too. But you managed to grow through those challenges.

Make time for reflection.

Take a moment to reflect on everything you went through.

Go through your camera roll, and as you scroll through pictures from each month, acknowledge the moments that made an impact on you.

This will help you see how you’ve changed over the years.

Look within yourself. 

• What would you do differently knowing what you know now? 
• How do you want to show up next year?
• What values do you want to focus on in the year to come?

What Lies Ahead in 2024?

By now you probably have decided what you want to leave behind this year.  

Perhaps there are things that didn't go how you expected. Allow yourself to process the feelings of dissatisfaction. Unexpected detours are part of life. It's in our best interest to view them as opportunities for learning and growth. 

Maybe this was a year of preparation for you. 

This is just one chapter of your life. There will be many more beautiful chapters that will bring you opportunities to fulfill your dreams. 

Have faith. 

Let go of everything that no longer serves you. 

Hit the reset button. 

Allow yourself to pause and to breathe. Give yourself time to recover from the hectic holiday season.

Celebrate your wins.

You have overcome some pretty big obstacles this year. You've stepped out of your comfort zone and embraced new opportunities. You focused on applying the lessons you've learned so far. You actively worked on healing your old wounds.

You've made so much progress in your journey. Celebrate your wins!

Focus on Values: Being More Intentional 

Choose to be more intentional every day. We all live very fast-paced lives. Amid the ups and downs of life, it's easy to forget that you do have many blessings to be grateful for. There is always something to be thankful for.

Appreciate where you are in life right now. 

This is the perfect time to reset your attitude. 

Say goodbye to 2023 and be ready to welcome a new year filled with amazing possibilities and magical moments. 

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