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A Life of Less Stress: 7 Thoughtful Things for You to Consider

By Georgia

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Last Updated: September 7, 2022

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Almost everyone could use a little less stress in their lives.

With so many things happening in the world, we are constantly bombarded with noise, conversations, messaging and expectations. We feel like we need to keep up, push harder and try to pack more into our already frenetic days. It's no wonder we feel stressed! 

So clearing out some physical and emotional clutter may be in order. We're here to help guide you on how to know what to keep and what to sweep to simplify and brighten your life.

 

 

7 Things to Ask Yourself if You Want a Life With Less Stress

1. For Your Consideration

When it comes to deciding what stays and what goes in your life, the options are not limited to purchases, possessions and other inanimate objects.

What adds stress to your life can go so far beyond things. It is important to consider all of the interests, activities and hobbies you still have that might be adding to your stress instead of alleviating it. You should also critique any ideas, values, beliefs, rituals, behaviors and patterns that may be problematic for your life.

It is difficult to contend with cultural norms that compete with your peace, but at some point, you may need to decide your life comes before social expectations.

Lastly, it may be time to take an inventory of the problematic people in your life who don't exactly “spark joy” for you anymore. It can seem cruel and impersonal to scrutinize your relationships like this, but your brain and body will thank you in the long run.

 

2. Need or Want?

The first filter is the easiest to assign. Just ask yourself if you need or want what you're examining.

You don't have to shed anything at this point, and just because you want something doesn't mean it's automatically slated to go. This is a quick and virtually painless list to fill out. You will be shocked to discover just how much in your life is a comfort or desire rather than a real necessity.

This means your wants list will be much longer than your needs list. And most of your needs will be basic, bottom of the hierarchy of needs requirements for life and survival. If you're confused as to how to separate a deep desire from an actual need you may have to ask yourself what your life would look like without it.

Would you struggle to survive or stay safe without it? Then it is likely a need; think of a home, utilities, or perhaps even your smartphone in some cases.

Would you be devastated and uncomfortable but ultimately you will live without it? Then it's a want.

 

3. Going Without

What would life be like without it?

If your life would get harder immediately and in the long run, it might be time to let it go. It can feel confusing when your life could become harder now but be better later, or would be better now but would leave you struggling long-term.

But there are other ways to evaluate the things in your life that could be hurting you.

  • Would you miss it?
  • Would you be relieved?
  • Will your friends and family be happy for you?
  • Would it contribute to your success?

If life is basically the same or worse with it you can do without it.

 

4. For Better or For Worse

Ask yourself if having something makes your life better or worse, and how so.

This is where things start to become complex and sticky. Sometimes what you hold on to makes things better in some areas of your life and worse in others.

  • They may have a long history of making things better but could make things worse in the present or future.
  • They could make you feel better in the moment but are bad for your health or mental well-being.

Here you'll have to decide what is important to you and what exceptions you're willing to make. But it is essential you understand why you make those exceptions or you will end up keeping things in your life to your detriment and won't understand why your life is still stressful.

 

5. If You're Happy and You Know It

Find out if keeping things adds to or subtracts from your happiness, and how.

This is typically easier to determine than whether something is better or worse for you. You know when you're happy and you know when you're not. The trouble is defending keeping something that makes you unhappy and scrapping things that bring you joy.

What sacrifices are you willing to make for your own happiness?

This may challenge your values, beliefs, culture, and in some ways your responsibilities.

 

6. The Easy Button

Do the people and things in your life make life easier or harder, and how?

It may get complex here again because some things can make your life both easier and harder. For example, certain people in your life may make, for example, childcare or paying bills easier while trampling your boundaries and making your personal life and peace of mind harder.

Again, you will have to think about what you're willing to sacrifice to make your life easier or keep your life simple.

 

7. Healthy Living

Also, ask yourself if the things in your life make you healthier or unhealthy.

This means the physical effects as well as the impact on your mental and emotional well-being. This is usually more cut and dry, with exceptions for rich foods, alcohol and other intoxicants.

But keeping everything in moderation and understanding the consequences of your consumption and indulgence will help you make better calls in this area.

Keep the things you need or deeply desire that are also meaningful and make your life better, easier, happier and healthier. The more you hold what and who stays in your life up to these standards the richer, fuller and less stressful your life will be.

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  • Tegu Crispus says:

    Good therapy to stress

  • Agyapah says:

    Very grateful for the opportunity given please

  • Concordiabelle says:

    Excellent timing! Changing seasons are a good time for evaluation and startng the process. Thank you.

    • Sarah @ Daily Motivation says:

      100% - the changing seasons are a great reason to change some of your own habits - wishing you luck in whatever you're working on 🙂

  • Holly Brownrigg says:

    Thank you

  • Nina W Kamwene says:

    Thank you for sharing and caring. I start each year by spring cleaning my whole life: Physical, Emotional-Mental-Spiritual. Through out the year I maintain my Life garden by pruning anything and anyone that does not serve me. I choose to have a high vibration life because I am responsible for creating a calm, caring and peaceful life. I learned from Life Mastery by Mary Morrissey: Be-Do-Have a life you are pleased with. You're the Creator of it. Each day I am grateful to be above the ground and breathing. I am truly grateful to Source. Be well & Blessings.

    • Sarah @ Daily Motivation says:

      You always leave such helpful comments Nina :). I like your 'life garden' analogy, that's a really smart way to look at everything, pruning what does not serve you. I'm sure you've given many of our readers food for thought! Take care.

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